When, What, and How to Begin Teaching Your Preschooler

A while back LeeAnn from Las Vegas asked myand left, colors, or counting!
opinion on just when is the right time to beginHOW TO TEACH
teaching her 2-year-old daughter. She has alreadySo how do you teach your preschooler without
begun teaching basic concepts such as alphabet,scheduling lessons and forcing them to pay
colors, and numbers, but some members of herattention? You embrace the teachable moment!
family feel that she is pushing her little girl.What is the teachable moment? It is simply an
In my opinion, the easiest way for LeeAnn toopportunity that springs out of normal, everyday
test whether or not she is pushing her daughterlife or as children become older and more verbal a
can be found in this quote: "Is it too soon, ortimely question or comment.
should I let her keep going as long as she isTime when you and your child are in the car, for
interested and is having fun?"example, is a wonderful teaching opportunity that
If LeeAnn's daughter is interested in the conceptsmany parents overlook. If you are reunited after
that she is learning and having fun while learninga day's separation then you can share stories
then it is definitely the right time to teach her.about your day-and in the process work on
Young children are interested in the world aroundvocabulary and literacy skills as well as teach your
them and they are interested in what theirchild about the world around them. You can also
parents know. Building on that interest to teachuse cars and trucks to teach colors, road signs to
basic concepts (just as LeeAnn is doing) is notteach shapes, and so on.
pushing your child -- it is meeting your child'sMealtimes are also wonderful teaching
needs. One of the most important things you canopportunities. Counting is easily worked into almost
do for your child is to offer an environment rich inany meal, such as telling a child they can have
learning opportunities. If you give your child thetwo cookies or giving them five tater tots.
opportunity to learn then he will learn -- it really isShapes and colors can also be brought into
as simple as that.mealtimes. For example, my son likes to choose
Remember, young children are learning a greatthe shape for his sandwiches-triangles or squares?
deal about themselves, their family andAs a child grows older you can also do letter
caregivers, and their world ever day. For most ofsounds with the various foods, such as milk starts
those lessons you are the teacher. By the timewith "mmmmh".
your child has reached the age of 2 you haveWHAT TO TEACH
already taught hundreds, even thousands, ofSkills you should work on with your child fall into
important lessons about how to function in theeight basic categories, according to early childhood
world and society. Indeed, many of the everydayeducators:
activities you perform with your child also have~ Social/Emotional Skills, which will be the greatest
academic implications. For example, the bookspredictors of success in life.
that you read to your child and the songs you~ Self esteem, which is crucial for all learning.
sing with your child have a lasting impact on~ Physical Skills
literacy. It is no great stretch to add other~ Communication Skills: listening, speaking, singing,
concepts into your repertoire and this can make adrawing, gesturing
great deal of difference in how prepared your~ Basic Concepts such as colors, letters,
child is for preschool and kindergarten.numbers, vocabulary
There are really only three things you should~ Categorizing Skills, what is the same and
remember:different
~ Keep it fun Making learning into a game and~ Compare and Contrast Skills, which is the higher
your child will always enjoys what you have toorder level of Categorizing
teach her.~ Experiences on which to draw. These are
~ Keep it light Educational products and activitiesperhaps the most important of all, as they
that are actually games are wonderful but don'tprovide a frame of reference for future learning.
force your child into spending time each day withThe more experiences from which a child can
flashcards or the like. They'll most likely learndraw, the better s/he will understand both learning
faster and more meaningfully if you have anand the world.
alphabet scavenger hunt at the supermarket.These are all literacy skills and they are all key to
~ Embrace the teachable moment but don'tyour child's future success. If you need still more
schedule lessons and force educational activitieshelp identifying concepts that your child should
on your child. When the opportunity presents itselfmaster then study the developmental milestones
(and it will countless times in a day!) takefor your child's age at
advantage and use it for a lesson. For example,So rest easy, LeeAnn, you are doing exactly the
simply putting on socks can be a lesson in rightright thing for your daughter!