Single Mothers Taking On Personal Responsibility

The philosophy that the Federal governmentvaluable parenting skills or to provide daycare
currently upholds for teenage mothers is towhile the mother is in school. Teenage mothers
promote values of abstinence, education, andhave often not matured themselves and they
paternity identification. Many services for singlehave to learn how to become responsible for
mothers on the Federal level have been curtailedanother human being. The mentoring program
or delegated to local agencies however; privateservices for young single mothers provide
organizations have also stepped in to fill the gap.emotional support while passing on skills in infant
Childcarecare and decreasing the chance of child abuse as
Although Aid to Families with Dependent Childrenthe child matures.
(AFDC) is still available, the requirement that aThe Public School System
teenage mother complete high school or live atSome schools, recognizing the need of services
home in a supervised setting means that childcarefor young single moms, have on-site childcare
and housing must be available for the teenageprograms. Some even allow the mother to bring
mother. Either she must work to pay forthe child to class with them, but these are few
childcare, or she must find programs that help herand far between. In addition, a teenage mother
to get assistance in this area. If her family is notmay feel the stigma of being an unwed mother
supporting her then housing and childcare bothand refuse to continue her education. However,
need to be met and become her first priority.there are local services that do try to provide a
Housingsupport system and services for young single
The Department of Housing and Urbanmothers to help them overcome their inhibitions
Development (HUD) has programs to establishand adjust to their new roles.
Second Chance housing for teenage mothers.Other local agencies that can provide services
These are usually delegated to local housingbeyond shelter and childcare are local hospital and
authorities such as apartment complexes orclinics. They often have special prenatal and
designated communities. Included in the servicespostpartum programs for young single mothers.
for young mothers, among the many otherThe local branch of the Health and Human
services, HUD offers:Services office also can pinpoint more resources.
- Adult supervision to ensure single mothers focusFor example, agencies such as Women, Infant,
on commitments& Children (WIC) can provide nutritional
- Parenting classes to strengthen their child rearingsupport for infants and their mothers.
skillsThe Message
- Access to childcare and health services to easeThe key to moving forward is to take personal
financial burdensresponsibility for your own life. Anything you can
- Available transportation to support employmentdream, develop a realistic plan for and stay the
- Mentoring to help them in making wise decisionscourse until you see results can be the basis for
- Education and job training to promotechange in life. You will find that opportunities will
advancement in the workforcebegin to seek you out as you work towards your
The need for a myriad of services for younggoal. But first there's maturity, second
single mothers as they face the challenge ofresponsibility to yourself, your child and the people
parenthood while finishing their educations iswho extend a hand to help you. And most
immense. These steps point them in the rightimportant remember that no one owes you
direction but still require maturity on their part.anything. But when you exhibit the characteristics
Mentoringmentioned above you will become the person you
Other local agencies may offer mentoring orchoose to be.
foster grandparents to help young mothers learn