Preschool - Necessary or Unnecessary?

ugh it may seem like you just brought your babyand home.
home from the hospital, the time may haveMost kindergarten programs are full day programs
come that you are now considering whether ornow so it can be quite a difficult transition from
not preschool is right for your child. Sending a childstaying home all day with mom to suddenly
off to preschool is always a subject of debatehaving to go to school for six hours a day. In
that is equally divided amongst experts andmany ways, this forms a transition period for
parents alike as to whether preschool is the bestboth the parent and the child.
option for children.Bad Idea
The debate largely surrounds the idea of whetherThere are just as many experts and parents on
a parent can supply the type of socialization andthe other side of the coin who deplore the idea of
learning that takes place in a structuredsending tiny tots off into the world to
environment. Let’s take a look at the two“fend for themselves”. These
sides.folks think of the structured setting as a waste
Good Ideaof time and even think that it might be
Many experts and moms alike agree thatdetrimental to the child.
preschool is the perfect setting for a child to learnMany parents feel that they are the best
in. The educational system has really changed andteachers for their children at this age and feel
modern expectations hold that children enteringthat shipping them off to school prematurely is a
kindergarten should know basic things like theirwaste of time and money. Their stance is that
numbers and “ABCs” that werechildren only get to be children for such a short
once taught only in kindergarten.period of time that enrolling them into school too
Many experts say that most parents will notearly only cuts into those precious few years that
spend the time and effort needed to teach a childthey get to spend at home with mom or dad.
the way an organized learning environment will.There are some experts that feel putting a
They also site the socialization factors as well.young child in preschool can actually hinder the
Basically preschool has replaced what kindergartenlearning process because they are so young and
was once geared to do.do not have the cognitive ability to learn what is
Kindergarten used to be the place where a childbeing taught – and some further cit that
went to learn group based social skills, but thesepreschool is a competitive type of setting that
are now required prior to beginning kindergartencan actually turn the child “off”
– and that’s why this type ofwhen it comes to learning.
setting prior to entering “realThe choice to put your child in preschool or not is
school” is recommended by so many.a personal decision and should be based on the
Experts also cite the idea that children learnmaturity of the child and the level of comfort
better when they are in a group of peers.that both parents and child feel with the idea.
Preschool also provides moms with a little downYour child may be ready to get out there and
time as well, while working to wean the child frommeet new people and learn, or he may need a
being at home all day with mom. In this way, acouple of more years at home with you. That
structured setting can be a stepping stone todecision, ultimately, lies in your hands.
kindergarten without the sudden split from mom