Is Your Child's Most Important Teacher Making the Grade?

There are lots of wonderful options available toof teaching lessons in manners, sharing, safety,
parents when sending their children to school;friendship and health. By promoting peace, quiet
there are great public schools, public and privateand good behavior they set the stage for calm
charter schools, Montessori programs, privatelives that encourage success.
religious schools and private niche type schools.A trip to the grocery store can be a struggle or
These schools often have highly qualified teachersreframed as a field trip for parents to build their
gifted in the area of early childhood education.child's cognitive skills and teach their children about
Parents feel that it is of great consequencegood nutrition and tending to the family. Bedtime
where they place their young children forand bath time can be wrought with tears, anger
Preschool, Kindergarten and beyond.and frustration or with some planning an
Yet with all of the school choices out there, oneopportunity to connect, wind down, read stories,
thing remains consistent, no matter what schooland reaffirm the love and commitment parents
parents choose for their kids, they (the parent)have for their kids. Potty training can teach
are the most significant teacher and role model achildren about patience, understanding and trust.
child will ever have.The trick is to shift the family paradigm and seek
While most parents take the previous assertionout those stressful situations to use as teaching
for granted, they may wonder or worry aboutmoments.
how exactly to be a teacher and role model.The early stages of development are tough on
They may feel that they aren't prepared orparents. Consciously making the choice to change
qualified to "teach" their children. They want theirperspective and build a harmonious family life sets
children to learn good social skills and thethe stage for unstoppable growth and happiness
appropriate (or higher) level of reading, writing andin children.
arithmetic for their ages and stages. Parents mayParents are captivated and excited by their
feel that they do not have the parenting aids andchildren's thirst for knowledge.
parenting tools that they need to have aParents should actively and joyfully participate in
significant impact. Lack of time and/or lack oftheir child's learning. Running, playing, climbing,
patience can sometimes stymie their attempts atdrawing, writing poetry, reading stories, folding
instruction, but this shouldn't be the case. Childrenlaundry and going to the grocery store are all
lose out when parents don't take a front seat inways to connect with kids. Parents should
their education.remember the wonderment they felt when they
Does teaching mean sitting down daily at thewere little. In addition to subject matter taught at
kitchen table and working on reading and writing?school, children need to learn life lessons and
It can, there are wonderful books available tolessons in values and character. Through both
parents who want to teach the basics, butword and deed parents make the biggest
parents can also take a more imaginativecontribution to their children and to the wonderful
approach to learning. Parents have the obligationpeople that they are destined to become.