How Adult Day Care Programs and Care Giver Support Groups Can Help Keep Aging Loved Ones at Home

When our parents become elderly and frail, wehappiness.
want to assist them and keep them at home asThere are many Adult Day Care Programs
long as possible. With the proper services,located in Palm Beach County. Most are run by
equipment and safety measures in place, this isgovernment funded organizations or not-for profit
possible for many people.agencies. Some examples include the Division of
But, successfully keeping our parents safely inSenior Services, Alzheimer's Community Care
their home (or ours) is only half the battle. ManyAlliance, Mae Volen Senior Center, Morse Adult
seniors are in fact living in their own home but areDay Center and New Day Adult Care Center.
completely isolated, lonely and sleeping the dayAdult Day Care rates vary widely, depending upon
away. Their life is spent waiting for doctorthe funding source and the participant's income.
appointments, waiting for someone, anyone toMany seniors who have Long Term Care
visit. Home care companies may advertise,Insurance are delighted to know that many
"There's no place like home", but not everyonepolicies do cover Adult Day Care. Most are
thrives at home. Let's face it, a senior who waspartially funded by federal funds through the Older
once an accomplished professional or an activeAmerican's Act and county funds such as
social butterfly will rarely be challenged by theCommunity Care for the Elderly. The government
company of a home health aide who may speakfunded Adult Day Care locations only charge the
limited English or who made be bored with his/herparticipant a small fee. This fee is usually in the
job. Having a warm body keep a senior companyform of a tax deductible donation. Many
does not qualify as social interaction. Many of ourgovernment funded programs have a policy that
clients crave just to be touched. If you hold theirno one is turned away for inability to pay. Private
hand, they won't let go. If you rub their tiredAdult Day Care locations such as those owned by
shoulders, they melt in the chair. A kiss on thechurches and private non- profit organizations
cheek goes a very long way because we all needmay have a sliding scale based upon financial
to be touched. The touch of a home health aidestatus. Private Adult Day Care can cost about
getting them dressed in the morning does not$55/day and may charge extra if the participant
count.requires personal hygiene care. Whether the cost
Even seniors who have moderate dementia andis $5 or $55 a day, all participants receive lunch
who seem to not remember one moment to theand two snacks, assistance with activities of daily
next do better when they have social andliving, specialized activities designed to stimulate
physical stimulation geared to their level ofbody, mind and soul. The goal is that every
understanding. Some feel social interaction doesparticipant has a day of FUN which celebrates
not matter if it cannot be remembered later. Thewhat they CAN DO. Staffing ratios average one
fact is, seniors with Alzheimer's or other types ofstaff member to every six participants. Some
dementia and memory loss do seem to liveeven have a ratio of 1:2. All Adult Day Care
moment to moment, but the quality of thoselocations should be licensed by the State of Florida
individual moments do matter to their overallas an Adult Day Health Care Facility. They are
health and happiness. If we have a six month oldinspected by the state biannually.
baby, we try to give them wonderful experiencesSome privately owned Assisted Living Facilities
even though they may not remember them thesuch as Arden Courts will allow you to bring a
next day. It is important to have quality of lifeloved one to their facility to spend the day and
every day because they do register at someparticipate in activities FOR FREE with the
level.understanding that the participant is considering
Adult Day Care Programs are designed to meetmoving into the facility within a month. Other
the daily socialization needs of seniors and providefacilities, such as Encore Senior Living will provide
necessary respite for weary caregivers. Evenday care at their dementia specific assisted living
seniors who have live-in caregivers may needfacility for about $55 per day for an unlimited
Adult Day Care because some seniors, especiallyamount of days with no move-in commitment
those with dementia, sleep very little. Theirnecessary.
caregivers are exhausted because their sleep isConsidering that the average price of a home
interrupted by their loved one roaming the househealth aide is now $17/hour ( that is $136 per 8
or watching television. The Adult Day Care helpshour day, an 8 hour day at Adult Day Care will
provide the caregiver with an opportunity to runcost only $55/day at the most. Adult Day Care,
errands and sleep. When the caregiver is aespecially those which charge very little, can save
spouse, Adult Day Care is especially important soa family hundreds of dollars per week in home
the spouse can attend social functions, doctorhealth care costs and provided priceless respite
appointments, and preserve their own health andfor the caregiver.