Child Development - 42 Months

As the child approaches the halfway mark in hisoff their newfound skills. These skills might include
or her fourth year of life, parents can take pridestanding on one foot or riding a tricycle. It is
in what they have succeeded in teaching the childimportant that parents witness and encourage
so far. However, there is still a lot more for thethese skills, so long as they are not dangerous.
child to learn in the coming months and years.This fosters interaction and instills a sense of pride
By the age of three-and-a-half, many children arein the child's accomplishments.
engaging in magical thinking. Magical thinking refersThe age of 40 months is a good time to start
to the blurred line between fantasy and realityteaching basic writing skills. Children at this age
that exists for many children at this age. At thislove to scribble and to draw, but many of them
age, the child tends to assign impossible traits toare also ready to learn to write their own names.
people or things. For instance, theParents should encourage but not insist on this
three-and-a-half-year-old might believe that he canbehavior. All children develop at different paces;
fly or that elephants live in the TV. The processsome kids might not be ready to write at this
of distinguishing reality is a long one that will lastage, and they should not feel bad if they are not
for the next several years, so parents shouldup to the task. Parents of a
understand and accept this magical thinking forthree-and-a-half-year-old should focus on the
now.positives and try to teach their child as much as
Children at this age are also interested in showingpossible.